“The day I realized I had two mothers, I was cut in half. One mother had had me in her belly and brought me to the special nursery, while this mother I called Mommy took me home from the nursery to live. One half of myself resided here with my family, and the other half was lost, lost to a shadowy woman floating somewhere out there in the world… You see, I’m adopted.”
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"Bauer’s yearning to understand her past the journey of her search and the resulting complexities make for captivating storytelling..... Bauer is able to make a personal narrative feel like a universal truth." ForeWord Review
Monday, November 28, 2016
#flipthescript 13: Healing & Hope for an Adoptee
This week I am featured on Lori Lavender Luz's adoption blog: flipthescript series, where she again talks about my memoir along with some recent legal updates concerning the upcoming date in January, 2017 where adult adoptees born in New Jersey can have access to their original birth certificates. Original birth certificates in the state of New Jersey are currently still under lock and key. Click here to read and go to Lori's page.
Saturday, November 12, 2016
Adult Adoptees in NJ will have access to their original Birth Certificates in January 2017!
It's finally going to happen for adult adopted individuals in New Jersey-access to our very own original birth certificate. Even though I am in reunion with both my birth mother and birth father for over twenty years, I still do not have the legal right to view or access my own original certificates that pertain to me-my life, my own birth. That is until this January!
Although I haven't been the biggest fan of Governor Chris Christie, I will say thank you from the bottom of my heart to him and the NJ state legislature for passing this bill. I am deeply grateful to them for allowing adult adopted individuals to have the right and the dignity to obtain their own personal records.
For those adopted in NJ here is where to go to access your own original birth certificate:
http://nj-care.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/reg-41-newjersey-original-birth-certificate-application.pdf
Once you downloaded and filled out the form, mail to:
Although I haven't been the biggest fan of Governor Chris Christie, I will say thank you from the bottom of my heart to him and the NJ state legislature for passing this bill. I am deeply grateful to them for allowing adult adopted individuals to have the right and the dignity to obtain their own personal records.
For those adopted in NJ here is where to go to access your own original birth certificate:
http://nj-care.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/reg-41-newjersey-original-birth-certificate-application.pdf
Once you downloaded and filled out the form, mail to:
Office of Vital Statistics and Registry
Adoption Request Unit
PO Box 370
Trenton, NJ 08625-0370
Adoption Request Unit
PO Box 370
Trenton, NJ 08625-0370
You need to include two additional things:
- Proof of Identity (acceptable forms of identity listed in in the instructions section of the application form)
- $25.00 check made out to the State Treasurer of New Jersey
Thank you New Jersey!!!!!
Wednesday, May 4, 2016
Reviews Needed!
Its been a while since I last posted and a while since I received a review for my memoir. If you feel so inclined, please leave a review on either Amazon or Barnes & Noble or on GoodReads, all are welcome and much appreciated :)
Will be posting soon about the upcoming date when New Jersey born adoptees will finally have access to their original birth certificates!! Woo hoo!!
Will be posting soon about the upcoming date when New Jersey born adoptees will finally have access to their original birth certificates!! Woo hoo!!
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